But if as you read this book you’re saying to yourself: “I’d rather be miserably married than be alone.” Well young lady, take out your clown shoes and buckle your seat belt – it’s going to be a very bumpy one-woman circus.
The way our minds work is that one positive thing and one negative thing does not equal each other.Instead, one negative thing can drastically bring down 2 or 3 positive things.
It doesn’t matter to me that my leaving will cost you money. It doesn’t matter that my space will take time to fill. What matters is that I’m happy and if you’re not willing to invest in me, then I’m willing to cost you money.
Hold on to the thought that no emotion lasts forever, no matter how wonderful or how terrible the emotion may be. The tears may last a little longer than you would like, but it will get better. I promise.
You won’t become a billionaire if you’re always afraid. You may become a thousandier or even a hundred thousandier but you won’t enjoy the money anyway.
Don’t let bad thoughts deceive you into thinking that you have to feel bad. Be aware and conscious of it and choose to think good thoughts whenever you are bombarded with the bad.Remember to live your life passionately!
Sometimes you have to deprive someone of the pleasure of being with you so that they can realize how much they need you in their lives…
When you go through a breakup, it feels likesomeone died. And the truth is that someone has died – the relationship.
Don’t play with damaged goods, you will only hurt yourself.
Often times you may find yourself in a relationship with a guy who looks like he is a mature adult, but then you find out that he’s just a selfish baby underneath that wonderful expensive cologne.
If he’s hitting you now, stop contemplating leaving him, and just leave.
You may eventually decide to breakup, and that’s fine, because headaches are not cute, but at least you know you tried.
You think embracing the longing while waiting for the right man is impossible? Well obviously you didn’t get the memo.
A few will say no, but many will say yes…remember that every No will get you closer to the many yeses as long as you have a system that works for you.
And finally have fun with it. If you’re not having fun, your speakers won’t have fun, and your participants won’t have fun. No matter what happens, remember that marketing should be fun, and life should be enjoyed.
Speakers are very busy people, with their own lives.Once you remember that sentence then it’s easy to know how to treat them and attract them.
People often ask if I pay my speakers to speak. No I don’t. If you are able to explain the benefits of the virtual summit to the speaker (which we address in chapter 5) then it will be easy for you to get the caliber of speakers you want.
There will be times when it seems that it would be best to just call him and see how he’s doing. Don’t deceive yourself, you don’t care about how he’s doing, you’re just craving him, don’t do it. You’ll only hurt yourself.
As time goes by, westart to see more clearly,and are able to see thatit wasn’t all bad, and thatperhaps just perhapsthe breakup was a gift.
You get to choose your decision, but you don’t get to choose the consequences.
We spend a lot of time trying to get more and more things, not realizing that those things can never fulfill us. Learn from those who have gone before you – stuff can never satisfy your desires, so focus on THE ONE who can.
When was the last time you had a good belly-shaking-tear-jerking-snot-producing laugh?That long?